Colleen Norris has written a groundbreaking book on child raising entitled "Just ASK a Child: Ways to Provide Kid Wings to SOAR". This book will certainly be available by the end of the year on Amazon.com and other places. She talked to Lon Woodbury, host of the Struggling Teens Internet radio talk show on how to be an effective parent.
Colleen Norris
Colleen Norris is the Owner and Founder of Loving Links LLC, an academic organization in the Greater Salt Lake Area. The company began in July 2006. At Loving Connections, the primary emphasis has constantly been on creating better family relationships. When the business initially started the concentration was on the marriage relationship, then after that it focused on motivating moms to find their real self and guide their children to do the same. In 2013, the release of "Just ASK a Child" will guide mothers to address the basic emotional necessities of their children.
Just Ask A Child-About Their 3 Core Needs
Norris thinks that the complex issue of raising a kid can be made a lot more manageable by concentrating on three components essential for a child's sense of well-being. These three requirements are that the child has to really feel 1) Adored, 2) Safe, and 3) Known. Her publication, "Just Ask A Child," goes into significant detail about the very best ways to identify these requirements and correctly address them.
Every child longs to be loved. Children are born with a strong need to be unconditionally liked and accepted for themselves. However, too often this open desire for love becomes discreetly transformed into a neurotic need through the child-raising process. Kids misinterpret a strict parent to believe that they must do only pleasing things to gain parental love. They think that their only chance of obtaining love depends upon their behavior. This conditional approval produces a constant state of self-doubt since there is chronic anxiety because the love they want might be withheld at any time for any number of reasons.
Children also really wish to feel secure. They actually feel little and prone to danger in a world of large adults and complex scenarios. When parents set guidelines, they also develop boundaries, and this does help kids feel much safer. Children begin to know just what works and just what does not work in life.
Finally, children want to be known. They desire to be acknowledged for who they are. They don't want to be treated exactly like their siblings. Instead, they want to be recognized for their own unique qualities and predispositions.
The discussion focused on just what parents can do to make youngsters feel unconditionally loved, the best ways to develop boundaries, and how to offer youngsters the emotional support they need to develop in a healthy and balanced way.
When parents neglect these three needs, they create insecure, confused, and rebellious children. The book, "Just Ask A Child," will be a major contribution to dispelling the mystery of good parenting.
Colleen Norris
Colleen Norris is the Owner and Founder of Loving Links LLC, an academic organization in the Greater Salt Lake Area. The company began in July 2006. At Loving Connections, the primary emphasis has constantly been on creating better family relationships. When the business initially started the concentration was on the marriage relationship, then after that it focused on motivating moms to find their real self and guide their children to do the same. In 2013, the release of "Just ASK a Child" will guide mothers to address the basic emotional necessities of their children.
Just Ask A Child-About Their 3 Core Needs
Norris thinks that the complex issue of raising a kid can be made a lot more manageable by concentrating on three components essential for a child's sense of well-being. These three requirements are that the child has to really feel 1) Adored, 2) Safe, and 3) Known. Her publication, "Just Ask A Child," goes into significant detail about the very best ways to identify these requirements and correctly address them.
Every child longs to be loved. Children are born with a strong need to be unconditionally liked and accepted for themselves. However, too often this open desire for love becomes discreetly transformed into a neurotic need through the child-raising process. Kids misinterpret a strict parent to believe that they must do only pleasing things to gain parental love. They think that their only chance of obtaining love depends upon their behavior. This conditional approval produces a constant state of self-doubt since there is chronic anxiety because the love they want might be withheld at any time for any number of reasons.
Children also really wish to feel secure. They actually feel little and prone to danger in a world of large adults and complex scenarios. When parents set guidelines, they also develop boundaries, and this does help kids feel much safer. Children begin to know just what works and just what does not work in life.
Finally, children want to be known. They desire to be acknowledged for who they are. They don't want to be treated exactly like their siblings. Instead, they want to be recognized for their own unique qualities and predispositions.
The discussion focused on just what parents can do to make youngsters feel unconditionally loved, the best ways to develop boundaries, and how to offer youngsters the emotional support they need to develop in a healthy and balanced way.
When parents neglect these three needs, they create insecure, confused, and rebellious children. The book, "Just Ask A Child," will be a major contribution to dispelling the mystery of good parenting.
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Learn more about Lon Woodbury on Struggling Teens. He has recorded the entire interview on his weekly L.A. Talk Radio show for people to listen to at any time.
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